Many times by the time a man has decided to come to me he has already read a countless number of books and articles on attracting women. Having this information I will ask him what if anything exactly he has gained by reading all of these different books. Usually he will respond by telling me that he knows all about how his inner game is the most important part in attracting women and that he knows all the techniques used to attract women. Yet the reality is that he doesn't know how to attract women he only understands the concepts of attracting women. Although knowing and understanding may seem to be the same thing they are completely different. I can know that the Sun will rise tomorrow without understanding why, just like I can understand how to hit a baseball without knowing how to hit a baseball. When you know it is the truth and it is the truth because you have seen it and/or doe it. Where as understanding simply means I've read or heard about it without actually doing it. When it comes to attracting women many times getting a man simply to understand that understanding how to attract women is not enough to know how to attract women, causes a big enough change in his reality where he now seeks out knowledge of the truth about attracting women by using the techniques to gain that knowledge. Remember when it comes to learning how to attract women the three words that can create the most problem is a man who says "I Know That" because only a man who know how to attract women can say I know that. |
