One of the cardinal rules in your search for the well-to-do woman is to forget the bars. The person you're looking for isn't wasting time in them. You have to go where the rich and soon to be rich spend their time. If you like boating and water, many yacht clubs allow people to join on social status who don't even own boats. What better way to meet a well-to-do woman than to be a member of this club and be present at the various social functions the club provides? This allows you to mingle with a lot of people of means without having a large cash outlay yourself.

If you're a horse lover, find an exclusive stable or riding club and join up. This doesn't mean you have to have a horse of your own to learn to ride.

Better supermarkets are excellent meeting places for the upwardly mobile, as are better department stores. You can be working there or shopping there, just as long as these eligible women see you. Some of the really large stores such as Bloomiingdales in New York have entire departments devoted to party needs such as wine, cheese, crackers or hors d'oeuvres, etc. Want to meet a nice on-the-way up type of woman, she's here buying for a fun party. It's a sure bet if you're looking around this type of party center; conver-sation will develop if you let it or even better, start it.

In University towns, the libraries are excellent meeting places for soon to be lawyers and doctors and other assorted professional types. Ideally, you should be in the University library as opposed to the public one. This could necessitate enrolling in one course to get the card entitling you to use the library. Take something fun and easy.

Real estate is always a good avenue to follow in pursuit of a good career and chances to meet well-to-do women. You will meet successful women looking to buy a home. So, get to night school and get that realtor's license so you'll be ready to meet those women looking for a home.

Male airline flight attendants meet great many successful women. Airline ticket persons meet the same people but usually don't have the time to start a relationship because of the lines and the need to get these people out. A flight attendant can get more exposure to the well-to-do passenger and perhaps start a relationship that will continue after the plane has landed.